Are those members real?
Yes, they are. All members on this site are actively trying to
find a partner for friendship, relationship and marriage. We personally check
every profile of our site. We update our database
on a regular basis and we have only members who are actively looking for a
How many members should I write to, to get a
You can write to as many members
as you want. Based on
experience we can say that if you write to only one or two members, you are
limiting your chances. It is a good idea to write to about 10 or more members you like
and include a good photo of yourself.
Is this service Free or do you charge money?
There are two types of membership and they are all free!
• Free Membership: is free of charge for limited use of benefits.
• Premium Membership: is given to the members who submit completed profiles with
a photo. They will be eligible to use
the maximum benefits of our site for free.
See the membership details for
How do I get started?
• Use the search page to find the
partner you are looking for.
Use the register page if you wish to list your profile.
How to Contact and Receive replies from other members?
If you wish to contact a member, you must register first.
Then login to your account and search for members profiles.
If you find interesting profiles you could click the "Email" and send them an
email message directly.
Alternatively, if you know the profile name, you could go to the "Mailbox" at
the top menu and compose a message.
Type the profile name exactly as it appears in the "To:" box and type the
"Subject", your message and send.
When you receive replies, you need to go to the "Mailbox" at the top menu and
click the "Inbox".
Should I send money to the members if they ask
Do not send money to any member. We also recommend you to forget about any
member WHO ASKS FOR MONEY
because most likely a person who would request money from you is not legitimate.
General morals do not allow people to ask for money from a non-family member. If
one of our member requests money from you for any purpose please let us know by
forwarding the message to our administrator.
How does the whole thing work? What is the
success rate? How to attain it?
There are no secrets, all
members love to chat and date, so you have a good chance! We
are sure you will find your partner if you are serious in your intentions.
Certainly you should take some effort, creativity and your time...
• It is necessary to present the pictures of good quality.
• It is
very important to fill in the registration form the right way: not to provide us
with the false information, to express your thoughts clearly and try to
distinguish your merits. Complete your full profile.
• Since you search for a
genuine person, remember that a genuine person is also searching for a genuine
• Carefully consider how you will
fill your profile. We understand that many of us are not writers who write novels
but try to describe yourself correctly. Fields like "Personal", "Interests" and
"More About partner" are very important. They along with your photo make the
first impression about you. Think over everything up to the smallest detail...
• Remember that English is not the native language of some people. Try
to write in easy and clear text without a slang...
• If you have any
questions about filling the registration form and the profile please mail to our
Any message writing tips or helpful
Here are a few things that have
worked very well for me and they may help you. First message should be informative
The Do NOT's:
• I never mentioned dislikes. Never have
anything negative in your messages. Its a sure turn off. Always be positive and
optimistic about life.
• Never write something your not able to expand upon
or deliver. Most ladies will keep your message if they want to pursue
getting to know you better. They will ask about something you wrote ten messages
ago so make sure you are honest.
• Never use slang words. Write simple clear
sentences. Good interpretation is important.
• Don't talk about your business
accomplishments. Most ladies do not care to know all the details. Its enough for
them to know you are able to support a family. What they want to understand is
you and what your personality is like and what your views are about life,
relationships, and family.
• Don't send a photograph of you and some friends
drinking or at a beach with some woman hanging on you (use common sense).
• Never talk about problems in your life all the time.
• Be energetic and enthusiastic about life and about meeting that perfect
someone to share your life with.
• Be kind and courteous at all times. Be a
gentleman. Women love respect.
• A lways write (on
your first message at least) with great curiosity about her and her life and
interest. Make the message equally informative about you as you are requesting
information about her. Keep things equal.
• Women want to know you
have interest in the whole "package". They like talking about families.
last and most important thing is to just be yourself. Write what you feel and
try to avoid the Do Not's. Keep things real and in perspective. Women of all
cultures want a man who is realistic. Women demand trust so do not break
trust with them early on. Be honest be yourself and most of all be a gentleman.
• If you are still finding yourself with problems in message writing check out
the message board. There are many people who are dating online who can
share some of their experiences with you.
How long should I correspond with a member
before I make a decision?
Every case is individual and it
depends on both of you. Sometimes it is necessary a few months to learn a person
and sometimes it takes the whole life to learn a person. No wonder that you need
to meet to get to know each other better.