Are those members real?
Yes, they are. All members on this site are actively trying to find a partner for friendship, relationship and marriage. We personally check every profile of our site. We update our database on a regular basis and we have only members who are actively looking for a partner.

How many members should I write to, to get a response?
You can write to as many members as you want. Based on experience we can say that if you write to only one or two members, you are limiting your chances. It is a good idea to write to about 10 or more members you like and include a good photo of yourself.

Is this service Free or do you charge money?
There are two types of membership and they are all free!
• Free Membership: is free of charge for limited use of benefits.
• Premium Membership: is given to the members who submit completed profiles with a photo. They will be eligible to use the maximum benefits of our site for free.
See the membership details for further clarifications.

How do I get started?
• Use the search page to find the partner you are looking for.
  Quick Search  Search Men  Search Women

• Use the register page if you wish to list your profile.
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How to Contact and Receive replies from other members?
If you wish to contact a member, you must register first.
Then login to your account and search for members profiles.
If you find interesting profiles you could click the "Email" and send them an email message directly.
Alternatively, if you know the profile name, you could go to the "Mailbox" at the top menu and compose a message.
Type the profile name exactly as it appears in the "To:" box and type the "Subject", your message and send.
When you receive replies, you need to go to the "Mailbox" at the top menu and click the "Inbox".

Should I send money to the members if they ask for it?
Do not send money to any member. We also recommend you to forget about any member WHO ASKS FOR MONEY because most likely a person who would request money from you is not legitimate. General morals do not allow people to ask for money from a non-family member. If one of our member requests money from you for any purpose please let us know by forwarding the message to our administrator.

How does the whole thing work? What is the success rate? How to attain it?
There are no secrets, all members love to chat and date, so you have a good chance! We are sure you will find your partner if you are serious in your intentions. Certainly you should take some effort, creativity and your time...
Some tips:
• It is necessary to present the pictures of good quality.
• It is very important to fill in the registration form the right way: not to provide us with the false information, to express your thoughts clearly and try to distinguish your merits. Complete your full profile.
• Since you search for a genuine person, remember that a genuine person is also searching for a genuine person!
• Carefully consider how you will fill your profile. We understand that many of us are not writers who write novels but try to describe yourself correctly. Fields like "Personal", "Interests" and "More About partner" are very important. They along with your photo make the first impression about you. Think over everything up to the smallest detail...
• Remember that English is not the native language of some people. Try to write in easy and clear text without a slang...
• If you have any questions about filling the registration form and the profile please mail to our administrator.

Any message writing tips or helpful hints?
Here are a few things that have worked very well for me and they may help you. First message should be informative yet interesting.

The Do NOT's:
• I never mentioned dislikes. Never have anything negative in your messages. Its a sure turn off. Always be positive and optimistic about life.
• Never write something your not able to expand upon or deliver. Most ladies will keep your message if they want to pursue getting to know you better. They will ask about something you wrote ten messages ago so make sure you are honest.
• Never use slang words. Write simple clear sentences. Good interpretation is important.
• Don't talk about your business accomplishments. Most ladies do not care to know all the details. Its enough for them to know you are able to support a family. What they want to understand is you and what your personality is like and what your views are about life, relationships, and family.
• Don't send a photograph of you and some friends drinking or at a beach with some woman hanging on you (use common sense).
• Never talk about problems in your life all the time.

The Do's:
• Be energetic and enthusiastic about life and about meeting that perfect someone to share your life with.
• Be kind and courteous at all times. Be a gentleman. Women love respect.
• A lways write (on your first message at least) with great curiosity about her and her life and interest. Make the message equally informative about you as you are requesting information about her. Keep things equal.
• Women want to know you have interest in the whole "package". They like talking about families.
• The last and most important thing is to just be yourself. Write what you feel and try to avoid the Do Not's. Keep things real and in perspective. Women of all cultures want a man who is realistic. Women demand trust so do not break trust with them early on. Be honest be yourself and most of all be a gentleman.
• If you are still finding yourself with problems in message writing check out the message board. There are many people who are dating online who can share some of their experiences with you.
Good Luck!

How long should I correspond with a member before I make a decision?
Every case is individual and it depends on both of you. Sometimes it is necessary a few months to learn a person and sometimes it takes the whole life to learn a person. No wonder that you need to meet to get to know each other better.